HowYouDoin?
Better with the people who know you

Grow alongside
your closest friends.

Set monthly intentions, score your life honestly, and cheer each other on, no leaderboards, no pressure.

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Join 12,000+ friends checking in together
Close Circle
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Jordan
June 2026
Start Run 3× a week

"I've been putting it off for months. This is the one."

Maya & Priya are cheering ·
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Priya
June 2026
Stop Doom-scrolling before bed
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Sam cheered your run
just now
Built around four ideas
Closeness · Honesty · Encouragement · Privacy by default
Why a circle

Goals fade. The friends who ask
how it's going don't.

Most goal tools are for one person. HowYouDoin? is built for a small circle of people you actually trust: a partner, a best friend, a co-founder. When someone you care about can see your intentions, you show up differently.

Circles

Share an intention,
not a leaderboard.

  • Your friends see what you're working on, not your scores.
  • Cheer each other's intentions, leave a note of encouragement.
  • You control exactly what you share, nothing is public by default.
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Sam
Keep Morning journaling

"15 minutes after coffee, non-negotiable this month."

5 cheering ·
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Priya
Stop Saying yes to everything
Tuesday, June 17 4 of 5 checked in
Tasks today
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Maya checked in 8:42 am
Morning run note

"5km done, legs felt heavy but pushed through it."

Read 20 pages
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Jordan checked in 9:15 am
Run 3× a week
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Lena Not in yet
Tasks today

See how everyone's
day actually went.

  • Daily task check-ins visible to your circle.
  • Leave a quick note on any task: context over completion rates.
  • See who's checked in and who's still going.
Friend profiles

Know what your friend
is actually working on.

  • See your friends' Wheel of Life scores month by month.
  • Read the notes behind the numbers: real context, not just data.
  • Scroll back through months to see how they've grown.
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Jordan
Wheel of Life
June 2026
Health 7

"Started running again, feels good."

Money 5

"Need to actually look at the numbers."

Relationships 8

"This circle has made a real difference."

How it works

Three steps to a closer circle.

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Invite a few friends

Create a circle and invite 2–5 people you trust. Works best small.

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Set your intentions

Each month, write what you want to Keep, Stop, and Start. Score your life areas 1–10.

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Check in & cheer

See your circle's intentions, cheer them on, and check in on your tasks daily.

"Since we started our circle I feel so much more connected to what's actually going on in my friends' lives, not just the highlights."

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Priya N. Circle member since January
🔒 Privacy by default

Nothing is shared until
you choose to share it.

Every intention, score, and note starts as private. You decide what your circle can see, per item, at any time. No surprises.

Keep Morning journaling
Private
Start Run 3× a week
Shared
Stop Saying yes to everything
Private
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Start a circle this month.

Invite a few people you trust. Set your intentions together. Show up for each other.